If I get marry with foreigner, my mother not accepts because my mother worried about relationship of each family. It is difficult for them to understand of each culture. Probably, my mother will not accept.
However, if I want not to part with him, I would persuade my mother.
If you have such a situation, your mother not accept, too?
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i think it's natural for parents to want their children to marry within their own culture or race but in my family and others that i know, this concept only accplies to a certain extent. if my familiy realized that i truely loved the person i am with and he is a decent human being, race would not keep them from accepting him as my lifetime partner. they have enough trust that i was raised right and respect for my prefrences and happiness, that they would support such an intercultural decision.
ReplyDeleteThese problems occur very frequently. I have experienced it first hand, my x boyfriend was Filipino and his mother refused to accept me into the family because I was from another nationality. His parents were part of an intercultural relationship yet they refused to accept or believe we were. My parents supported us 100% but his parents made out relationship hell until after 6 months when they finally gave in and got to know me. It was hard but when you care about someone you do not give up, you stick it through and that’s what we did.
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